You are defiantly right about balance - I was like you (and Cait) described before covid struck, and, as you say possible an unhealthy obsession! Nowadays I am so much more chilled about what I do- and it really has become the 'bare minimum'. At the beginning of the six weeks I decided Monday's would be my only 'work day' ... and even that has proved too much for me! 😂. (I really must try harder as I do pay myself as normal during the holidays !!! 🙀- well, in my defence I do do quite a lot of thinking! 😂)
We (home) are pretty much finically secure (🤞🤞) which I feel why I have become more 'chilled' ..... HOWEVER I grew up during some very hard times, (who remembers the 3 day week and power cuts etc?) and in the back of my my mind in the current climate I keep thinking- "I need this money just incase"
At the moment I'm in a 'happy place' - even though currently having that - back to work- dread. I think having the knowledge that if the "$... hits the fan" at any point- I can just say enough in enough, and then quit helps though. xx
That was me pre Covid!!!