sunnyday Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 Sorry Rebecca I will consider my wrist slapped :1b 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FSFRebecca Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 Sorry Rebecca I will consider my wrist slapped :1b ::1a Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pimms o'clock? Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 This will give you an idea of the 'how and why' Dr Jools Page came up with the term 'Professional Love' http://www.nurseryworld.co.uk/nursery-world/news/1150332/practitioners-professional-love-project Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FSFRebecca Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 This will give you an idea of the 'how and why' Dr Jools Page came up with the term 'Professional Love' http://www.nurseryworld.co.uk/nursery-world/news/1150332/practitioners-professional-love-project That's really interesting, thanks for sharing. I can see how the term has evolved. As others said at the start of the thread I think this is the kind of thing that might be addressed in a provider's safeguarding policy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouseketeer Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 Really zigzag this is not a laughing matter Dear Mousie thank you for sharing - I have, of course adapted your policy for my own use :lol: I just found it somewhere a few years ago, may have even been here :-) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
narnia Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 I'm sorry too...................totally forgot myself there for a moment. ( note to self: do not hijack serious threads with humour). x 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lsp Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 Sorry everyone. Of course anything that keeps children safe in our care is serious business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finleysmaid Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 We all need a joke about policies sometimes....hope Gill enjoyed them too! I'm assuming all ofsted inspectors have a hilarious sense of humour as they have to be so serious during an inspection My apologies to the OP, hopefully you've got your answer and had a laugh at the same time 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zigzag Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 Woops. No offence meant and of course it is a serious matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trekker Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 My niece tells me that at her school staff will not reapply sun cream to anyone beyond KS1...and they don't get encouragement or time to do this independently either...they wont clean up a wound...they hand the child wipes or whatever to clean it and to apply their own dressing...!!! it just shows how some settings have taken it way to far ....they are afraid to get close but what is the effect on the children! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zigzag Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 My niece tells me that at her school staff will not reapply sun cream to anyone beyond KS1...and they don't get encouragement or time to do this independently either...they wont clean up a wound...they hand the child wipes or whatever to clean it and to apply their own dressing...!!! it just shows how some settings have taken it way to far ....they are afraid to get close but what is the effect on the children! Oh my goodness, I would argue that this is then bordering on neglect. The world has gone mad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunnyday Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 My niece tells me that at her school staff will not reapply sun cream to anyone beyond KS1...and they don't get encouragement or time to do this independently either...they wont clean up a wound...they hand the child wipes or whatever to clean it and to apply their own dressing...!!! it just shows how some settings have taken it way to far ....they are afraid to get close but what is the effect on the children! That just makes me feel so sad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louby loo Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Fabulous. This made me chuckle. Chuckle?? Chuckle? it made you chuckle ???.................... it made me cough up my coffee and then start choking! :wacko: :lol: .....I then had to rush and try and find if we have a STAFF breathing policy. Seems we haven't...with Ofsted looming we a doomed at our setting. xx 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouseketeer Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Well I blame narnia ...if she hadn't mentioned breathing policy I wouldn't have even remembered I still had it somewhere ;-p 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarshaD Posted June 17, 2017 Share Posted June 17, 2017 Mouseketeer that's brilliant! On the professional love matter we don't have a policy but I do refer to it in a document which I'd guess you'd call a code of conduct. This is more for parents than for OFSTED though. It might seem like common sense to us, but it isn't to everyone. I previously taught in a school where there was a strict no contact culture and I think that is ridiculous so I feel it is important to state that if a child needs a cuddle that they will get one! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarshaD Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 That should read taught - Freudian slip I guess as I fought a fair bit too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
narnia Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 Not quite about a 'policy' as such......just my own feelings about something. We were in our local TESCO yesterday, and a Beaver/Cub group were packing the shopping for a donation. Our till had a child ( female ) who was about three(?)........and I said i would pack my own stuff, but would give a donation when I had finished which I did. The child was delighted with the amount I put in and shouted to the leader who was not far behind her 'Look, I got another £2 !!).............( I was short of change,)........anyway, the woman on the till said to her.............and what do you need to remember?........so the child said 'thank you'........................and then the woman told her...........and remember to blow a kiss!...............I immediately said no................no child should be taught to do that and the woman sort of looked at me as if i were mad. Anyway, as I left, I said to the Akela that maybe she should ask the woman not to to say that to the child and she said 'oh she's been doing that all the time' and I left it. BUT.........my own gut feeling, 'fun'? or am I leaning too heavily on my safeguarding?? Or my gut instinct?? OR................worse.....am i becoming an old bat?? Reflecting on it, I just think nobody, especially children, should be taught/told to blow, or give kisses in return for something. One of my daughters always asks her child to give me a kiss when they leave us..........and gets embarrassed if he refuses. I keep telling her that it is his RIGHT to say no..............and it will stand him in good stead in his future life, knowing that he can say no. ( however, he does always tell me that he loves me.......and I say ah, but I love you more....................his response is, yes, but I love you to all the infinities and round them and back again). The kiss can wait! ( I do sometimes get one though 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FSFRebecca Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 I agree Narnia, it doesn't sit right with me either. I agree that the point about it being a child's own choice is crucial. Also, if either of my children had chosen to blow a kiss to a stranger, which is what you were, I would have been telling them 'No' anyway on the basis that kisses are for people we know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildflowers Posted July 29, 2017 Share Posted July 29, 2017 http://professionallove.group.shef.ac.uk/love/ http://professionallove.group.shef.ac.uk/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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