Rea Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 It was a bit of fun but the other thread was a tad negative even if it was tongue in cheek, so this one is positive. The best advice I was ever given related to observations... 'Never write anything you wouldnt want a parent to read'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hali Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 My mum always told me 'never return to a job you have left - sooooo true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finleysmaid Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 if you don't ask you don't get...in other words blag as much as you can the worst that can happen is a no(and it doesn't happen often ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cait Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 (edited) My mum always told me 'never return to a job you have left - sooooo true Hmm, well there's the ironing pile I started and left when the iron broke .................... am I allowed to leave that then? and edit to say that I like Anne of Green Gables' motto that "Tomorrow is another day with no mistakes in it yet!" possibly best advice though, from Dad is that when you are in one of those situations when a parent won't let you get a word in edgewise, stop trying. Edited July 19, 2011 by Cait Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emmawill Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 My last few years have been very stressful with one thing and onother and my mum always says "what doesn't kill you will make you stronger" or another one which really winds me up is "everything happens for a reason" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rea Posted July 19, 2011 Author Share Posted July 19, 2011 I was still thinking along EY lines. Outside of EY, my dad had a breakdown when I was at secondary school, his advice afterwards was "never let anyone worry you, everyone goes to the loo, same as you, they're no better, if a teacher tells you off, look at his tie, say yes sir but dont let his words affect you". And I mostly never have Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunnyday Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 'don't put off 'til tomorrow what you can do today'......if only I could say that this is how I operate! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucie Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 You can't do everything, but what you can do - do well enough to please as many people as possible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Upsy Daisy Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 All behaviour is communication. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 Don't feel you have to pay any attention to advice you haven't asked for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 My dear old mum always says "what you can't cure you have to endure"; this is very true and has saved me hours of worry when I've accepted the fact that there are things I can't change!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 In my early days of posting here, I was fairly newly qualified, about to start my FD. I had numerous jobs mostly as a result of conflicts with other people. I would regularly come on here and moan about this person or that person and I had real difficulties seeing somebody elses point of view. I was always right in my opinion and couldn't be told otherwise. When I was given constructive criticism, I always took it as a personal slight. Once I started my FD, my tutor was reading through one of my reflective accounts. I wasn't very good at these either to be honest because it was all about me, with little actual reflection. My tutor called me in for a tutorial and sat me down and said to me "if it's personal, it's not professional" and this has stayed with me throughout my career. Don't get me wrong, I still don't like being told I'm wrong but I can now take constructive criticism and reflect on it. My behaviour has improved loads, I no longer throw strops and tantrums when it doesn't go my way, and I can generally see how or why I was in the wrong. I've been in my current job for almost three years so I've got to be doing something right! This doesn't make me sound very nice does it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyMaz Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 This doesn't make me sound very nice does it On the contrary, it makes you sound like someone who knows yourself very well and has worked hard to come to grips with a part of your personality which made you unhappy in the past, to make a change and learn from your experience. That makes you an ideal person to give advice because you have literally been there, done that and got the t-shirt! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juliewilk Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 The first head teacher I ever worked for told me, 'Never ask anyone to do something you wouldn't do yourself.' Working closely in a team with other staff both in FS and in school this has been the most valuable piece of advice I've ever been given. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 From my father: There are only 3 people in a school you have to get on with - the schoolkeeper, secretary and cook. You can have a fight with anyone else and still do your job but without those three on your side life becomes impossible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andreamay Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 what goes around comes around! or something like that!! I am a firm believer in Karma though But my old dad's advice was always treat people how you would like to be treated and manners cost nothing! That is how I have lived my life and certainly my professional life! Andrea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eyfs1966 Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 My favourite early years one is "planning is what you fall back on when no better learning opportunity arises". My favourite life one is the "keep calm and carry on" motto Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 If you accidentally write on a dry-wipe board with a permanent marker, write over it with a dry wipe pen and it will come straight off, no problems Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 there was also one about how to stop scissors getting all stuck up when cutting sticky velcro but I can't remember it so if anyone knows that one I'd be really grateful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louby loo Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 there was also one about how to stop scissors getting all stuck up when cutting sticky velcro but I can't remember it so if anyone knows that one I'd be really grateful! I'd like to know that one too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liberty Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Although the terminology is not very PC, I always keep in mind something I was once told - "The child that annoys you the most, is the child that needs you the most". Another piece of advice I was once given which helps when needing to say something which may well be unwanted information to adults is the concept of a "s**t sandwich", so if appropriate, I try to sandwich 'bad' news/information between two 'good' pieces of news/information. Also agree with other post regarding the advice to treat others as I would wish to be treated myself. And... a smile costs nothing, so give them out freely. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SueFinanceManager Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 I used to worry that the children were being too messy sometimes and fuss which stopped their creativity....my boss took me to one side and said it was her room, floor, chairs etc that were getting paint, glue glitter on etc and not mine so relax.....best advice ever......amazing how much fun and creativity you can have when you are not paranoid about a wayward spot of paint. It did of course take me ages to clear up afterwards but there were usually willing little helps with little buckets of soapy water and then a mop The other one I always am grateful for, when reading a factual book about spiders I was pulling faces (I don't like spiders) again my boss quietly asked me not to let me fears become the child's fear. I have done this with my own children and they are so much braver and bolder than me although I have at times had to force myself to do things so they wouldn't miss out on an experience that I thought they would like....some hideous long corkscrew roller-coaster at Thorpe Park comes to mind! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Upsy Daisy Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 ...and of course Register on the Foundation Stage Forum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rea Posted July 21, 2011 Author Share Posted July 21, 2011 The other one I always am grateful for, when reading a factual book about spiders I was pulling faces (I don't like spiders) again my boss quietly asked me not to let me fears become the child's fear. I have done this with my own children and they are so much braver and bolder than me although I have at times had to force myself to do things so they wouldn't miss out on an experience that I thought they would like....some hideous long corkscrew roller-coaster at Thorpe Park comes to mind! Ditto! When mine were little I'd make an excuse to them about why I couldnt get the spider out of the bath or take the slug off the cats tail 'call daddy, I've just got to...' Now they know how I dislike them they are happy to chase me with the offending creatures Another saying I used to use a lot when the lads were little was 'if you cant say anything nice, dont say anything at all'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Ditto! When mine were little I'd make an excuse to them about why I couldnt get the spider out of the bath or take the slug off the cats tail 'call daddy, I've just got to...' Now they know how I dislike them they are happy to chase me with the offending creatures Another saying I used to use a lot when the lads were little was 'if you cant say anything nice, dont say anything at all'. I don't like spiders either - but I am quite happy to tell children that I don't like them. I also teach them a song: 'If you're scared of spiders, If you'd like them banned, You'll meet other people, Who do not understand. But where all scared of something, We've all had a fright, So being scared of spiders, IS PERFECTLY ALL RIGHT!' (To the tune of Goosey, Goosey, Gander) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rea Posted July 21, 2011 Author Share Posted July 21, 2011 I like that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Tried to quote but for some reason it won't let me - the trick with sticky scissors is to wipe them with baby wipes! Also works brilliantly on anything ink pads have been near! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 22, 2011 Share Posted July 22, 2011 Yay! thanks lucyhobbit... now i wonder if I'll remember that in september! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poppy33 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 lots of useful tips here. The one I always remember is: When you're about to say something, ask yourself three questions: 1. Is it true? 2. Is it necessary? 3. Is it kind? Well, I try... Poppy x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 when i was having trouble saying no to others and myself by taking on too much "that's not high on my list of priorities for today" makes me stop and think what is really important to get done today and what can wait Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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