SueJ Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Oh PPP I really do feel for you - I'm sorry that no one is able to come and support you either. If there is nothing of any note then maybe you should just dump it on them and walk away. Just remember there truly is life after this - in my case I had to hire a legal eagle because of some of the things being said and done and published in the local press. They had to eat v. humble pie and the editor and reporter of our local paper had to print an apology. Must confess I did find that quite gratifying and can honestly say that I have absolutely no regrets - you will be truly better off without them. Chin up - time to move on and enjoy YOUR life and make it good for you Take care Lots of hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rea Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 It doest matter whether the things you have are importnat or not, I'd still let them have the lot, that way they can never say you kept things. Are the premisis owned by the group? If not, can they really stop you from going there with the stuff to drop it off? I certainly wouldnt want them at my home, can you drop it at your deputys or better still the person who has taken your place, as one professional to another? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 No, it's a community building. I can't drop it at either of the nice staff members houses as they don't drive and wouldn't be able to carry it; and to the one who's replaced me, I don't want to go near her! She's no professional anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rea Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Put it all into as taxi and have it delivered to the playgroup. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I'll take it to the shed later - I shouldn't care, they've not been nice to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inge Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 yep, dump it all in shed.. not in bags, just as is... and walk away.. Inge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Upsy Daisy Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I second that and make sure you take a photo of it in place to show what's there. Just in case they think of starting any funny business. Not that I think they'll have any reason to seeing as you've done everything they've asked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 All done and committee informed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Good for you! And I hope you feel better after that {big hug} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Hi PPP, just wanted to send you a hug and to hope that tonight you can move forwards into a better place and get a good nights sleep. Take time to think about what you want to do in the future but use the next few weeks to enjoy spending time with your family and doing things that make you smile. Good luck with the house move and keep int ouch with us all here. Love and prayers and hugs Nicky Sussex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyMaz Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 All done and committee informed. Ooh! Is their response on record? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hali Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 well done PPP hope you tipped it all out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suebear Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 hope it tumbles out of the shed on to them when they open the door. Goodbye horrid people, welcome the future x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Their response: Wait for it........................... Thank you but I could've collected it... and......... I hope you are feeling better and please feel free to let me know if you find anything outstanding. Everyone - the Committee and Staff and Parents, send you all our best wishes Well, my voice went rather high in response to that!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cait Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 It beggars belief, doesn't it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Upsy Daisy Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 How anyone can have the barefaced cheek to say that after what they've done is beyond me! You are better off out of there. It's all behind you now. One day you'll be able to look back on your time there and remember the good bits. In the meantime enjoy the extra time to plan your move and spend time with family. Don't give the people you've walked away from any more thought than you have to. They don't deserve it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyMaz Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Well you know me: I'm not often lost for words but... Maz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jenpercy Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Is that outstanding as in - something you have done before you left that we should pat our own backs about - or anything outstanding that you haven't done because you were pushed out. either way its really cheeky. I thnk you should go to employment tribunal. I have a feeling, as someone who has been threatened with it, that it is mainly the nuisances who go. did you know that if there isn't enough money in the pre-school kitty the treasurers are liable personally. good luck Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Outstanding as anything I've forgotten to give back (I think) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 did you know that if there isn't enough money in the pre-school kitty the treasurers are liable personally. /quote] Oh how VERY tempting PPP, many years ago I was advised by my Staff Association to claim Constructive Dismissal against my then employer ( a VERY large multinational) I had 1 visit from the SA rep, 1 trip to a local solicitor (with SA) and a settlement offer within 4 weeks!! The settlement made the difference between me working full time and part time when my daughter was very young and ultimately led to a complete change of direction which is how I registered as a childminder Every cloud............. PLEASE get in touch with a local solicitor who offers a free legal advice surgery and find out where you stand. Nona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fredbear Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Hi play play play how are you today? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eyfs1966 Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Have read this thread with horror and dismay and just wanted to add yet more hugs and best wishes to the list. What a sad and terrible situation you have found yourself in. I am so sorry, but hope that you can now put it all behind you. All the very best for your new future, what ever it is that YOU choose to do next. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suebear Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Am I right in thinking they still owe you money? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 You are correct suebear. I've not had the confirmation of my departure in writing yet as promised so will wait for the postman today. If no sight of a cheque I shall we 'aving a word'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue R Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 Hi P3, late joining in here, but hugs as I have been in a similar situation some time ago. Hope all goes well for you in the future - don't give them a second thought when this is all over Sue x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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