Hasn’t it always been this way, just possibly not so intensely magnified? In my last September I struggled to find sessions for a little boy to fit round his Mum, then a week before the term started she contacted me to ask if he could have the same sessions as his cousin, and her sister would bring him. Okay, with some shuffling and asking another parent to swap (who was luckily very flexible) I managed that, only to be told the day before the term started that she hadn’t actually asked her sister and it wasn’t convenient! Could she go back to the other sessions? Er, no. I’ve filled them now. I wasn’t about to ask helpful Mum to swap again! She continued swapping and changing his sessions for the first few weeks before pulling him entirely, claiming he wasn’t settling! She asked for a place for him in the summer term ‘so he could play with some friends before they start school’ 😡