List Making

[SueFinanceManager]

I am a list maker. Anyone who lives or works with me knows that I write them obsessively. On post-it notes, in my diary, in little books, on scraps of paper.

I think they might drive the people around me a bit crazy…

I have lists of things to do: for today, in half term, to tell my work colleagues.

Then there are the lists of things I want to remember: books I have read as an adult, books I read as a child and want to pass onto my children, films I love, places we have been on holiday, words I like, and in the more recent past a list of all the new words and phrases related to the pandemic (I thought this would jog my memory one day when someone much younger than me asks about it).

When each of my children were born, I made lists of names we liked and their meanings.

Way back, for a friend’s hen night, I made a list of pros and cons for keeping her own last name or changing to her fiancé’s (she kept her own - if you’re wondering!).

When our family were deciding whether to relocate, I made a list of the pros and cons of staying or going (we stayed – thankfully as it turned out).

Throughout my life, lists have helped me remember things (daily or long term) and have helped me make decisions. They comfort me, support me, make me feel ‘in control’.

 

Some of you may know the lovely ‘first reader’ books by Arnold Lobel, originally published in the 1970s, about Frog and Toad. There is one story called A List, in which Toad writes a list of everything he will do that day:

Wake up

Eat Breakfast

Get Dressed

Go to Frog’s House

Take Walk With Frog…

 

As he does each thing, he crosses it off his list (and yes, I do that too). But then, while on said walk with Frog, a gust of wind blows the list out of Toad’s hand.

‘What will I do without my list?’ cries Toad.

Frog suggests running after it, but Toad says no. Frog asks why not?

‘Because’, wailed Toad, ‘running after my list is not one of the things that I wrote on my list of things to do!’

 

Ahhh, the wisdom in those words. The problem with lists is that we stick to them. We rely on them. And we forget to be spontaneous, to look at what is happening right now in front of us, in this moment.

There has been a lot of talk about lists in early years education recently, with the publication of the new Development Matters and the new ELGs. Educators are thinking about how we have recorded young children’s learning in the past (maybe by looking at a list of statements and, dare I say it, ticking them), and how we could do it differently. 

Perhaps we could all learn a lesson from Toad.

 

 

[louby loo]

I love a list and a note book 😁

 

[Jules]

Yes! There is something about a fresh new notebook... and then I love how the pages get a bit worn and dog-eared over time! 

[sunnyday]

Oooh you are talking my language - love, love, love a list or three!

[JJGoody]

Well said and instructive. I should read Arnold Lobel stories to my children.

[Mouseketeer]

Hi JJ and welcome 😊 

I add things to the list after I’ve done them just so I can tick them off ✔️ 

 

[Jules]

Welcome JJ! The Arnold Lobel stores are delightful. 

I do that too Mouseketeer - it is so satisfying! 😊

[louby loo]

Another one  here that adds just to cross off! 😂

 

[Mouseketeer]

On 19/10/2023 at 09:26, Jules said:

Welcome JJ! The Arnold Lobel stores are delightful. 

I do that too Mouseketeer - it is so satisfying! 😊

Isn’t it ever! Some days I only achieve the things that weren’t on the list to start with so if I didn’t do that it would look like I haven’t done anything 🙄

[Froglet]

Welcome JJ!

I too am a list lover and have a beautiful notebook where I plan out my weeks (with mini lists!) to help manage the overall to do list! My problem is sticking to them - I seem to get so distracted by other things which are necessary and important (as well as the less necessary and important ones!) that I often don't get to do what was on the original plan.

I do agree though that we could do with learning from Toad. I sometimes try to plan in a time buffer so that I don't get stressed when things don't done in time. I also sometimes put on my list something vague like 'craft time' or 'outside time' but don't specify what so then I can be spontaneous with what I feel like doing but also don't just find myself doing jobs the whole time.

I've also taken to carrying round what I think of as my 'random notebook'. Odd thoughts pop into my head at all sorts of moments, usually of things I must remember to do which are already on a to do list somewhere. I need to write them down to get them out of my head but actually rarely need to look at them again. In fact, if I ever do look back at a page I am often quite worried at the number of places my brain seems to have jumped to!

[mundia]

List maker too. Like crossing things off but for everything crossed off, something gets added. Mr mundia looks at me bewildered, he's never been a list maker. 

[Stargrower]

On 18/10/2023 at 19:49, Mouseketeer said:

Hi JJ and welcome 😊 

I add things to the list after I’ve done them just so I can tick them off ✔️ 

 

Me too!

[louby loo]

On 24/10/2023 at 18:07, mundia said:

List maker too. Like crossing things off but for everything crossed off, something gets added. Mr mundia looks at me bewildered, he's never been a list maker. 

Andy used to laugh at mine, but he is now fully converted and has become an advid list maker! 😂