Upsy Daisy Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 That's so good to hear. If you can find a way to work together you could make an excellent pair of reflective practitioners Can you find a less stressful way to develop your managerial skills next time? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyMaz Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 Can you find a less stressful way to develop your managerial skills next time? That made me laugh Upsy Daisy - I'm afraid everything single managerial skill I've developed (and I'm up to three now) has been done the hard way. The problem with management is that often you dont know what you don't know until a 'situation' happens. Of course by then its too late and you're in the thick of something you're not sure how to deal with. Shirel I am so full of admiration for you - it takes real strength of character to tackle something head on, reflect hard on one's own character/personality/skills and openly discuss one's feelings (especially with someone who has caused so much unhappiness even if it is unintended). You're an absolute star and at the risk of repeating myself, they are extremely lucky to have found you. I only hope they appreciate what a treasure you are. Have a lovely glass of wine tonight to celebrate the 'you-ness of you'. Maz x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 Thank you so much - it means such a lot coming from someone who I admire and who has always give me such sound advice and support - maybe one day we will actually meet in the flesh - I will be able to give you a huge hug! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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dublinbay Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 Ahem! Pardon this intrusion ladies.....just wanted to say that I'm glad everything has turned out well for you Shirel. All the best! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 That made me laugh Upsy Daisy - I'm afraid everything single managerial skill I've developed (and I'm up to three now) has been done the hard way. The problem with management is that often you dont know what you don't know until a 'situation' happens. Of course by then its too late and you're in the thick of something you're not sure how to deal with. Shirel I am so full of admiration for you - it takes real strength of character to tackle something head on, reflect hard on one's own character/personality/skills and openly discuss one's feelings (especially with someone who has caused so much unhappiness even if it is unintended). You're an absolute star and at the risk of repeating myself, they are extremely lucky to have found you. I only hope they appreciate what a treasure you are. Have a lovely glass of wine tonight to celebrate the 'you-ness of you'. Maz x Hear! hear! Well Done, Shirel! Nona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cait Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 I'm glad you managed to tackle her, and hopefully she's taken all you both said on board and has gone home and had a really long look at herself and the way her comments have been misconstrued. Hopefully she'll 'engage brain before speaking' as my Dad used to advise. I hope you enjoyed your well-earned glass of wine! Fingers tightly crossed that she comes in tomorrow in a positive frame of mind and works really well tomorrow. Write it all down in your log book, though Big hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hali Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 well done Shirel - enjoy a relaxing weekend hun xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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