blondie Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 hi to those of you who replied about little girl whos baby had died in womb. many thanks for all the replies - the little girl came in yesterday - she was fine - made a card for daddy "because he was sad for his baby boy his son who died" she said spoke to nan who gave me all the deatils - very sad - she cried i gave her a hug and cried a few tears too. mum wont be around for a while - she cant face anyone at the moment and cant go out for fear of seeing a baby as knows she wont cope - nan said. i asked her to send my love and say i was thinking of them all. so at least the first bit is over. many thanks to you all for your words of help - i knew i would know what to say - if you know what i mean - but just wanted that reassurance x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SmileyPR Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 Thanks for the update and well done with your heartily response to the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 Well done, Blondie! The first meeting in a situation like this is often the worst, and now Nan and grandaughter know they have a warm welcome, a friendly ear and a hug when needed. Nona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Spiral Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 Well done blondie. It's just so daunting having to meet and talk about the unknown. I really do feel for the whole family, it's just so hard to imagine and it does affect everyone around them - including yourselves. You've done a fantastic thing broaching the subject and helping the little girl through the door. Spiral x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyMaz Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 Well done blondie. The first contact is always the worst - now that grandma has confided in you she'll have widened the number of people she can talk to about her feelings and who she can have a little cry with when necessary. I'll bet the family are glad to have your support. Maz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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