QUOTE (dcn @ Jul 30 2009, 19:11)

We tried foam yesterday, she really didn't want to get it on her hands and kept whispering "wash hands now". I supported her to stay for a litlle longer but it doesn't seem worthwhile to me if she's not engaged and enjoying it - or do you think little bursts like this will support her snesory development?
Have heard of write dance - can i do it with any music just to have a go with her?
Any ideas on what strategies you would use to encourage her to commmunicate directly with other children?
I work with SEN children and I am a huge advocate of messy play.
I would still do messy play activities with her and build it up in small stages. A little girl I work with enjoyed using dry materials e.g. paper shreddings, rice, lentils. I have also tried hair gel bags with her where you seal hair gel in a food bag with glitter. The advantage of this is she doesn't have to have direct contact with it. You can also use other ingredients e.g. jelly, paint etc. This gives the opportunity to for her to build her confidence so that she 'might' move on and try new experiences later on. We are now at a stage where she will prod and mark make in messy substances with a tool.
There is a fab book called Fun with Messy Play - Ideas for children with SEN which helped me enormously and gave me loads of ideas:
http://www.bookdepository.co.uk/book/97818...with-Messy-PlayIn it the author says that the specific areas she sees improvements in are:
relaxation of muscles
development of gross and fine motor skills
development of self help skills
development of social play, turn taking and sharing
development of concentration and observation skills
development of bonding
development of body awareness
development of communicatiion skills
Definately a good investment!